"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tell me about your life
- Thread starter Jizz
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well... I was born in _____(place). Nothing really happened in my life until 5. I mean, I was a tipical kid. But at 5, I knew what my passion in life was. *Build up talking about that passion in your life, how it has cleared your path into a greater life and interaction with god etc etc, build up, and then..* ...
... import and exporting slaves.
*then you go on talking about that buissiness, that, or how some pedo dude discovered you had a great ass..and you're now a worldwide known ass model you stand up and show her your ass and all, and say that she can't touch it, because that would ruin your insurance on them, because it clearly states "insurance will not apply if perfect glutes are touched by a mere mortal"
You can't ask question about what specific girls SAY... we don't know this girl, we don't know what she wants to hear.... no one here can give you advice on that, and if they do, it won't be as good of advice that you can give yourself.
- Griffman
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Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
We are shooting in the dark on this one