"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tell me about your life
- Thread starter Jizz
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well... I was born in _____(place). Nothing really happened in my life until 5. I mean, I was a tipical kid. But at 5, I knew what my passion in life was. *Build up talking about that passion in your life, how it has cleared your path into a greater life and interaction with god etc etc, build up, and then..* ...
... import and exporting slaves.
*then you go on talking about that buissiness, that, or how some pedo dude discovered you had a great ass..and you're now a worldwide known ass model you stand up and show her your ass and all, and say that she can't touch it, because that would ruin your insurance on them, because it clearly states "insurance will not apply if perfect glutes are touched by a mere mortal"
You can't ask question about what specific girls SAY... we don't know this girl, we don't know what she wants to hear.... no one here can give you advice on that, and if they do, it won't be as good of advice that you can give yourself.
- Griffman
griffman.blogspot.com
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
We are shooting in the dark on this one