"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tell me about your life
- Thread starter Jizz
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well... I was born in _____(place). Nothing really happened in my life until 5. I mean, I was a tipical kid. But at 5, I knew what my passion in life was. *Build up talking about that passion in your life, how it has cleared your path into a greater life and interaction with god etc etc, build up, and then..* ...
... import and exporting slaves.
*then you go on talking about that buissiness, that, or how some pedo dude discovered you had a great ass..and you're now a worldwide known ass model you stand up and show her your ass and all, and say that she can't touch it, because that would ruin your insurance on them, because it clearly states "insurance will not apply if perfect glutes are touched by a mere mortal"
You can't ask question about what specific girls SAY... we don't know this girl, we don't know what she wants to hear.... no one here can give you advice on that, and if they do, it won't be as good of advice that you can give yourself.
- Griffman
griffman.blogspot.com
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Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Master Don Juan
We are shooting in the dark on this one