"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OKAY I AM SO CONFUSED.

Why is it always the girls that i am not interested in ask me out? WTF is up with this? Today this girl asked me for my #, and i was like ........ ummm ok.... But i am not interested in her. Why is it the girls that ask me out are always the ones i dont like? Is it because i am ugly or something that they feel they have the right to ask me out or something? why dont the hot girls every ask me out, but the ugly girls do????

i know the alpha male is supposed to approach the women, but i rarely do any number closes because i dont want a g/f right now. But i am just curious, do they think that i am on their level, that they should ask me out or something? cuz i dont want to be a match wit a ugly girl.....

What does this mean? And btw, i honestly dont consider myself good looking... i am short about 5'6-5'7 and i wear glasses and have some acne on my face.

i hate myself sometimes.:mad:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by grifter
OKAY I AM SO CONFUSED.

Why is it always the girls that i am not interested in ask me out? WTF is up with this? Today this girl asked me for my #, and i was like ........ ummm ok.... But i am not interested in her. Why is it the girls that ask me out are always the ones i dont like? Is it because i am ugly or something that they feel they have the right to ask me out or something? why dont the hot girls every ask me out, but the ugly girls do????

i know the alpha male is supposed to approach the women, but i rarely do any number closes because i dont want a g/f right now. But i am just curious, do they think that i am on their level, that they should ask me out or something? cuz i dont want to be a match wit a ugly girl.....

What does this mean? And btw, i honestly dont consider myself good looking... i am short about 5'6-5'7 and i wear glasses and have some acne on my face.

i hate myself sometimes.:mad:

Because your intimidated by hot girls and you unknowingly act Alpha around the ugly girls. Most likely by ignoring them and then giving them a little attention. Work on improving your looks and self confidence, then approach HB's with the same "who cares" attitude that you use with the ugly ones.



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Because pretty girls are lazy and have everything served to them. The ugly girls are most likely single (and probably desperate) so chances are its the ugly ones that will approach you.

I consider myself good looking and only ugly girls will approach me in the clubs, don't let it get you down - use it to your advantage, get her to introduce you to her good looking friends.
 

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yeah, that's true. you guys are right about that not giving her any attention, and then giving her a little attention. i did that...

and that introducing to hot friends... that would probably kill her self esteem if i did that. oh well.

I know you're supposed to give all the attention to the ugly girl, and then use her to talk to the good looking one, but still... i just wanted to be friends and she ruins everything by askin for my #. now i dont ever want to talk to her lol.
 
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