"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OKAY I AM SO CONFUSED.

Why is it always the girls that i am not interested in ask me out? WTF is up with this? Today this girl asked me for my #, and i was like ........ ummm ok.... But i am not interested in her. Why is it the girls that ask me out are always the ones i dont like? Is it because i am ugly or something that they feel they have the right to ask me out or something? why dont the hot girls every ask me out, but the ugly girls do????

i know the alpha male is supposed to approach the women, but i rarely do any number closes because i dont want a g/f right now. But i am just curious, do they think that i am on their level, that they should ask me out or something? cuz i dont want to be a match wit a ugly girl.....

What does this mean? And btw, i honestly dont consider myself good looking... i am short about 5'6-5'7 and i wear glasses and have some acne on my face.

i hate myself sometimes.:mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by grifter
OKAY I AM SO CONFUSED.

Why is it always the girls that i am not interested in ask me out? WTF is up with this? Today this girl asked me for my #, and i was like ........ ummm ok.... But i am not interested in her. Why is it the girls that ask me out are always the ones i dont like? Is it because i am ugly or something that they feel they have the right to ask me out or something? why dont the hot girls every ask me out, but the ugly girls do????

i know the alpha male is supposed to approach the women, but i rarely do any number closes because i dont want a g/f right now. But i am just curious, do they think that i am on their level, that they should ask me out or something? cuz i dont want to be a match wit a ugly girl.....

What does this mean? And btw, i honestly dont consider myself good looking... i am short about 5'6-5'7 and i wear glasses and have some acne on my face.

i hate myself sometimes.:mad:

Because your intimidated by hot girls and you unknowingly act Alpha around the ugly girls. Most likely by ignoring them and then giving them a little attention. Work on improving your looks and self confidence, then approach HB's with the same "who cares" attitude that you use with the ugly ones.



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Because pretty girls are lazy and have everything served to them. The ugly girls are most likely single (and probably desperate) so chances are its the ugly ones that will approach you.

I consider myself good looking and only ugly girls will approach me in the clubs, don't let it get you down - use it to your advantage, get her to introduce you to her good looking friends.
 

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yeah, that's true. you guys are right about that not giving her any attention, and then giving her a little attention. i did that...

and that introducing to hot friends... that would probably kill her self esteem if i did that. oh well.

I know you're supposed to give all the attention to the ugly girl, and then use her to talk to the good looking one, but still... i just wanted to be friends and she ruins everything by askin for my #. now i dont ever want to talk to her lol.
 
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