"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tell me about hooking up with dates vs parties

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In a college situation. Which one is better? Which one is worse? I mean I know that slvtty bytches love parties.

Sometimes I just feel like taking women out on coffee dates and eventually bringing them home to fvck. Without drinking or drugs or any of that. But is that lame? Do you absolutely need to do stuff like bring them home after going to a lit party?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Former College Beta here. Then as a greek, a date was to invite a girl to be my date at a fraternity function (aka PARTY). My conversion rate on those was horrible. I asked "nice" girls and was afraid to push the envelope.

Joint Sorority Fraternity parties with no date, just a couple houses getting together got me contacts but zero hookups

Spur of the moment apartment parties with no guest list or date function had a higher lay rate than any other social function. ONS's were the norm

Off Campus clubs and bars were the highest conversion though. Less of a Social Circle feel. Women were more unrestrained and aggressive.
 

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Meet at the party, go for a walk, fvck her in private. Rinse and repeat. It's not that hard if you are decently looking, can talk to a woman and have some confidence. Then again, these days, always have a VAR on you in the college setting.
 

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Take a trip to any of the typical European summer holiday destinations - East/Southern Spain, Balaerics, Greek Islands summer 2019. If you don't get laid, there's definitely something wrong with you.

Otherwise, mix it up. Maximise opportunities. Go to parties, go to clubs, go on dates. And don't take any of it too seriously.
 

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In a college situation. Which one is better? Which one is worse? I mean I know that slvtty bytches love parties.

Sometimes I just feel like taking women out on coffee dates and eventually bringing them home to fvck. Without drinking or drugs or any of that. But is that lame? Do you absolutely need to do stuff like bring them home after going to a lit party?
Overall both. There's no reason to pick only one unless you absolutely suck at one.

Loud music means less talking so your looks and actions stand out more but your charisma is lessened, so good for if your charisma is weak but you're 6'2 and a good dancer

Alcohol means that if you get too drunk you'll fvck up your game (but your confidence is boosted) but if the girl is drunk everything you do will come off better (but this will all wear off in the morning) whereas without alcohol your game has to stand on its own merits, you need your own confidence, but the results are less fleeting and transient

If you're not particularly good looking nor a great dancer/darts and beer pong champion but you are charismatic then coffee dates may be stronger for you

It's way easier to get laid when alcohol is involved but it's way harder to get a girlfriend out of that
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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easy lay, easy std/vd
 
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