"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tell me about hooking up with dates vs parties

nicksaiz65

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In a college situation. Which one is better? Which one is worse? I mean I know that slvtty bytches love parties.

Sometimes I just feel like taking women out on coffee dates and eventually bringing them home to fvck. Without drinking or drugs or any of that. But is that lame? Do you absolutely need to do stuff like bring them home after going to a lit party?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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2Rocky

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Former College Beta here. Then as a greek, a date was to invite a girl to be my date at a fraternity function (aka PARTY). My conversion rate on those was horrible. I asked "nice" girls and was afraid to push the envelope.

Joint Sorority Fraternity parties with no date, just a couple houses getting together got me contacts but zero hookups

Spur of the moment apartment parties with no guest list or date function had a higher lay rate than any other social function. ONS's were the norm

Off Campus clubs and bars were the highest conversion though. Less of a Social Circle feel. Women were more unrestrained and aggressive.
 

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Meet at the party, go for a walk, fvck her in private. Rinse and repeat. It's not that hard if you are decently looking, can talk to a woman and have some confidence. Then again, these days, always have a VAR on you in the college setting.
 

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Take a trip to any of the typical European summer holiday destinations - East/Southern Spain, Balaerics, Greek Islands summer 2019. If you don't get laid, there's definitely something wrong with you.

Otherwise, mix it up. Maximise opportunities. Go to parties, go to clubs, go on dates. And don't take any of it too seriously.
 

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In a college situation. Which one is better? Which one is worse? I mean I know that slvtty bytches love parties.

Sometimes I just feel like taking women out on coffee dates and eventually bringing them home to fvck. Without drinking or drugs or any of that. But is that lame? Do you absolutely need to do stuff like bring them home after going to a lit party?
Overall both. There's no reason to pick only one unless you absolutely suck at one.

Loud music means less talking so your looks and actions stand out more but your charisma is lessened, so good for if your charisma is weak but you're 6'2 and a good dancer

Alcohol means that if you get too drunk you'll fvck up your game (but your confidence is boosted) but if the girl is drunk everything you do will come off better (but this will all wear off in the morning) whereas without alcohol your game has to stand on its own merits, you need your own confidence, but the results are less fleeting and transient

If you're not particularly good looking nor a great dancer/darts and beer pong champion but you are charismatic then coffee dates may be stronger for you

It's way easier to get laid when alcohol is involved but it's way harder to get a girlfriend out of that
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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easy lay, easy std/vd
 
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