"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tell her...

davester88

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Should I tell her I don't need her. On an msn conversation just be like, hey you know what i dont need you anymore. I'm playing it cool but i do need to get her some how, do you think that'd work?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by davester88
Should I tell her I don't need her. On an msn conversation just be like, hey you know what i dont need you anymore. I'm playing it cool but i do need to get her some how, do you think that'd work?
:confused: What the hell you talking about?
 

AlexTheGreat

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Re: Re: Tell her...

Originally posted by Vincent
:confused: What the hell you talking about?
seconded ... wtf are you talking about. Is this your girlfriend or the girl you're interested in ? What has she done taht requires you to tell her that ? Give us some background man
 

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if you want to get the point across that you don't need someone simply forget about them. you don't need words. display it with actions, it makes a bigger impact.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jakeyboy

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1 word... that will probably escape from the girl you're trying to hook lip's as she sits staring at the MSN convo screen.... HUH???


please be specific. what in god's name are you talking about? because why would you want to tell her you dont need her???
 

Thraxeh

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
1 word... that will probably escape from the girl you're trying to hook lip's as she sits staring at the MSN convo screen.... HUH???


please be specific. what in god's name are you talking about? because why would you want to tell her you dont need her???
lets get some bets going ?

i place $50 on HUH???

you can also bet on

"lets **** now"
 

jakeyboy

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i raise you $50 on "HUH???"
 

InsidiousNstinct

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Eh...I'll put one dollar on "lets **** now. :D
 

jakeyboy

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Originally posted by JBizzle
Eh...I'll put one dollar on "lets **** now. :D

thats a lousy bet my man. -wink-
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jakeyboy

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;)

forgot bout that.
 
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