"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tell her i like someone else?

tony-montana

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girl who i was seeing likes me a lot but i have fallen for another woman. i have been ignoring the other girl for a while but she keeps calling/texting. i was thinking just bite the bullet and reply with something like this?

hi, i dont think we can catch up soon. i have been a bit busy with work and other things. i am also seeing someone who i really like, just thought you should know that. i am sorry.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chickfight

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You'll end up hurting her no matter what you do, so just get it over with.
 

PokerStar

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i'd keep her around just in case..give her some time just to keep her IL high, if things dont work out with the new woman, at least you have a back up.
 
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