"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tell her i like someone else?

tony-montana

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girl who i was seeing likes me a lot but i have fallen for another woman. i have been ignoring the other girl for a while but she keeps calling/texting. i was thinking just bite the bullet and reply with something like this?

hi, i dont think we can catch up soon. i have been a bit busy with work and other things. i am also seeing someone who i really like, just thought you should know that. i am sorry.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chickfight

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You'll end up hurting her no matter what you do, so just get it over with.
 

PokerStar

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i'd keep her around just in case..give her some time just to keep her IL high, if things dont work out with the new woman, at least you have a back up.
 
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