"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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tell her i like someone else?

tony-montana

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girl who i was seeing likes me a lot but i have fallen for another woman. i have been ignoring the other girl for a while but she keeps calling/texting. i was thinking just bite the bullet and reply with something like this?

hi, i dont think we can catch up soon. i have been a bit busy with work and other things. i am also seeing someone who i really like, just thought you should know that. i am sorry.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chickfight

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You'll end up hurting her no matter what you do, so just get it over with.
 

PokerStar

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i'd keep her around just in case..give her some time just to keep her IL high, if things dont work out with the new woman, at least you have a back up.
 
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