"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tell her I have feelings for her ?

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mikee

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Short story:
I met a girl, shes cute and I have a crush on her.
Her friend asked me what are my feelings about her and i said "yeah I'm interested" she asked back "only that?" and I replied yes.
Now I've been thinking how dumb I was and I think I should've said I loved her, so I need your help, should I tell her I love her or is it a mistake ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Huge mistake. Never tell a girl you love her first, let alone a girl you hardly know.
 
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Your answer was perfect. You said you were interested. You didn't mess it up. Now she knows that she has to try hard to get you. She probably will call you soon and ask you to spend time with her. If you had said that you love her, you would already have lost her.
 
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the thing is I haven't told her anything new, I already showed interest with her several times. She has a few guies interested in her too, and I don't wanna lose her... :(
 
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You did a good thing in not telling her friend that you loved this girl. The number one rule in telling a girl that you love her is that she has to tell you first. Also you have to have been dating her for a few months. Meaning if she tells you that she loves you on your first date, do not tell her that you love her back. Lastly don't lie.

As for other guys being interested in her, take charge and ask her out. Do some activities with her, don't wait for the other guys to get farther with her.

BTW you can't loose what you don't have.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yea son get up there and ask her out before its too late man. you only get one life, take your chances. and never tell her you love her until way down the road and she has already told you. but you are new and you will learn.
 
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