"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tell her I have feelings for her ?

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Short story:
I met a girl, shes cute and I have a crush on her.
Her friend asked me what are my feelings about her and i said "yeah I'm interested" she asked back "only that?" and I replied yes.
Now I've been thinking how dumb I was and I think I should've said I loved her, so I need your help, should I tell her I love her or is it a mistake ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Huge mistake. Never tell a girl you love her first, let alone a girl you hardly know.
 
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Your answer was perfect. You said you were interested. You didn't mess it up. Now she knows that she has to try hard to get you. She probably will call you soon and ask you to spend time with her. If you had said that you love her, you would already have lost her.
 
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the thing is I haven't told her anything new, I already showed interest with her several times. She has a few guies interested in her too, and I don't wanna lose her... :(
 
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You did a good thing in not telling her friend that you loved this girl. The number one rule in telling a girl that you love her is that she has to tell you first. Also you have to have been dating her for a few months. Meaning if she tells you that she loves you on your first date, do not tell her that you love her back. Lastly don't lie.

As for other guys being interested in her, take charge and ask her out. Do some activities with her, don't wait for the other guys to get farther with her.

BTW you can't loose what you don't have.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yea son get up there and ask her out before its too late man. you only get one life, take your chances. and never tell her you love her until way down the road and she has already told you. but you are new and you will learn.
 
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