"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tell girl who likes me im with another girl but gonna dump her?

chance

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so i recently been talking to a girl who really likes me but im seeing someone who i don't like as much. i am more attracted to the other girl. should i tell her im with someone else but thinking of dumping them? i mean, don't girls like to compete? usually when girls know a guy is with someone else they chase harder. or should i not say anything?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Iceberg

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Don't create games just for the sake of playing games.

If she's already digging you, just make a move for her. Keep both girls for a bit. Or if your current girl is becoming a burden, just outright dump her.

But really, don't just start throwing sh*t at the new chick just for the hell of it. That's what girls do.
 

loveshogun

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Iceberg said:
But really, don't just start throwing sh*t at the new chick just for the hell of it. That's what girls do.
Agreed, but wish to make the following distinction:

Girls and boys play games.

Men and women don't have time for that bullsh*t.

Get women. Not girls.
 

Ease

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loveshogun said:
Agreed, but wish to make the following distinction:

Girls and boys play games.

Men and women don't have time for that bullsh*t.

Get women. Not girls.
That's awkward, you just said women dont play games.

Since when has that been true
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Ease said:
That's awkward, you just said women dont play games.

Since when has that been true
He's distinguishing between the quality of two different types of females.

Girls/Boys = game players

Women/Men = normal

Do women play games? Of course. Men do too. But for the purpose of this conversation, he's trying to draw a distinction.

...just trying to clear it up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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