"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell a girl shes hot.

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I was wondering if there is a girl you like and want to ask out if you tell her you think shes hot could that get you a slap in the face? DO girls find comments like hot to be degrading?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well basically she isn't going to find it "degrading" per say. But by you approaching her and just saying "Your Hot" what shes really hearing from your lips is "Hi I'm just like every single other guy here and i'm only talking to you because I want to get in your pants" .
Thats my oppinion. I would suggest saying something a little less vivid. Maybe picking out something specific about her like her eyes for example and just saying "Wow I like your eyes" or something of that sort. I'm sure there are some women out there tho who would like a guy to tell them they are hot but if the woman you are approaching IS really hot chances are shes gonna be tired of hearing it from every other guy.
 
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Tell ugly girls they are hot, and tell hot girls they are smart/interesting.
 
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Tell ugly girls they are hot, and tell hot girls they are smart/interesting.
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that girl I still like at work next time I call her up I;ll tell her I think shes hot.
 
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Originally posted by midwestguy
that girl I still like at work next time I call her up I;ll tell her I think shes hot.
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You like ugly girls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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