"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was wondering if there is a girl you like and want to ask out if you tell her you think shes hot could that get you a slap in the face? DO girls find comments like hot to be degrading?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well basically she isn't going to find it "degrading" per say. But by you approaching her and just saying "Your Hot" what shes really hearing from your lips is "Hi I'm just like every single other guy here and i'm only talking to you because I want to get in your pants" .
Thats my oppinion. I would suggest saying something a little less vivid. Maybe picking out something specific about her like her eyes for example and just saying "Wow I like your eyes" or something of that sort. I'm sure there are some women out there tho who would like a guy to tell them they are hot but if the woman you are approaching IS really hot chances are shes gonna be tired of hearing it from every other guy.
 
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Tell ugly girls they are hot, and tell hot girls they are smart/interesting.
 
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Tell ugly girls they are hot, and tell hot girls they are smart/interesting.
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that girl I still like at work next time I call her up I;ll tell her I think shes hot.
 
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that girl I still like at work next time I call her up I;ll tell her I think shes hot.
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You like ugly girls?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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