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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell a girl shes hot.

midwestguy

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I was wondering if there is a girl you like and want to ask out if you tell her you think shes hot could that get you a slap in the face? DO girls find comments like hot to be degrading?
 

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Well basically she isn't going to find it "degrading" per say. But by you approaching her and just saying "Your Hot" what shes really hearing from your lips is "Hi I'm just like every single other guy here and i'm only talking to you because I want to get in your pants" .
Thats my oppinion. I would suggest saying something a little less vivid. Maybe picking out something specific about her like her eyes for example and just saying "Wow I like your eyes" or something of that sort. I'm sure there are some women out there tho who would like a guy to tell them they are hot but if the woman you are approaching IS really hot chances are shes gonna be tired of hearing it from every other guy.
 

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Tell ugly girls they are hot, and tell hot girls they are smart/interesting.
 

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
Tell ugly girls they are hot, and tell hot girls they are smart/interesting.
that girl I still like at work next time I call her up I;ll tell her I think shes hot.
 

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Originally posted by midwestguy
that girl I still like at work next time I call her up I;ll tell her I think shes hot.
You like ugly girls?
 

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