I met this girl last night, she was really feeling me but I slipped up by telling her I would call her tommorrow night. I've made the decision that I am going to call her next week but I don't want to seem like a lier sense I gave a specific day. So, what should I say to this chic? When I call her, should I just wait till she brings it up & then respond w/ a "I was busy." or what do you guys thinking?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Telephone Blunder?
- Thread starter R2Change
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Igetit!
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I say to go ahead and call her when you said you would.R2Change said:
It's just a girl dude. It's not like you're defusing a bomb and HAVE TO get this right.
Why are you so worried about calling her tomorrow? You think you may come off as needy or something?
Just call her,talk for a bit,try to say something exciting to stir up her emotions,set up a date with her,then end the call.
It's just that simple.
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