"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Teeth whitening?

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What's up guys. I'm new here & slowly crawling out of this AFC hole. I'm really embracing this whole self-improvement mantra, though. I have a personal trainer at a nice gym & I've started going to tanning beds. Another thing I was thinking about is whitening my teeth. They're not noticably yellow or anything, but I do drink coffee every morning & smoke cigarettes, so there's definitely some staining.

Anyone here bleach their teeth? Which method has worked best for you? I know there are procedures you can have done by a dentist, but I'd prefer something I can do at home before I go to bed or something.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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my teeth started getting a little discoloured recently, so i increased my brushing to 3 times a day for a minute. so far it's working pretty well

good to hear about your turn towards self-improv. hopefully you'll be able to do away with smoking
 

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My teeth are substantially whiter than they were 6 months ago. A few months back, I picked up a Sonicare toothbrush with quadpacer. For those of you who don't know what a quadpacer is, it's basically just a timer on the toothbrush that goes off every 30 seconds, telling you to switch to a different quadrant of teeth (Front Top, Rear Top, Front Bottom, Rear Bottom). Therefore, each time you brush is 2 minutes. I do this 2 times a day, sometimes, but rarely, 3. It's a pain, but it did whiten my teeth some. Also, it's great for other dental reasons. If brushing 5 minutes a day prevents me from going through some terrible dental procedure 10 years from now, it'll be worth it to me.

I also used to drink NOTHING but soda. I dropped that altogether, for other reasons. Doing this probably led to some of the improvement.

Crest Whitestrips also work pretty good, but are limited only to the six middle teeth (upper and lower of course)
 

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so i increased my brushing to 3 times a day for a minute.
I have really weak gums... sadly I'm the 1 in 32 ratio that if I try anything rough or whitening for more then one time a week my gums bleed pretty bad... and no it's not ging. Just I inherited bad gums and soft teeth....

Try this.... Rembrant... The one I'm thinking of is Red in a Silver Box... I think It says 20minutes... anyway it comes with trays and some syringes of whitening gel... best part is you can return it for a ful refund after you used the whole thing... then buy a sencond one.... so for $20 you can REALLY WHITEN YOUR TEETH.... Stuffs at Walgreens... I'd do it once or twice a day... I've pulled off using a whole case in one day...[thats about 14 treatments per row of teeth]


After you have your teeth witened though make sure to get some good toothpaste or the whiteness can fade quickly... thats the other problem with doing more then 2-3 a day... you'll notice super whiteness then it fades a bit and settles.... where 2-3 a day.... it normally sstays where it is....


Otherwise you can go to a dentist and get it done professionaly
 

CapiCrimini

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i hear crest white strips are perfectly fine and safe.

I actually find them to be a *****.... after I found Rembrant I never turned back... trays are a lot easier.... WhiteStripes slip too much
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my gums bleed too most times, but it doesn't hurt that much
 

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cap your teeth, or coat them with enamel. expensive, but the ultimate.
 

DJUofS

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Crest whitening strips work wonders, i've used them. I have gotten countless compliments on how white my teeth are now. All you do is take each strip and wear them for an hour, twice a day. Very easy, well worth it.
 
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