"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Teeth whitening?

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What's up guys. I'm new here & slowly crawling out of this AFC hole. I'm really embracing this whole self-improvement mantra, though. I have a personal trainer at a nice gym & I've started going to tanning beds. Another thing I was thinking about is whitening my teeth. They're not noticably yellow or anything, but I do drink coffee every morning & smoke cigarettes, so there's definitely some staining.

Anyone here bleach their teeth? Which method has worked best for you? I know there are procedures you can have done by a dentist, but I'd prefer something I can do at home before I go to bed or something.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gav

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my teeth started getting a little discoloured recently, so i increased my brushing to 3 times a day for a minute. so far it's working pretty well

good to hear about your turn towards self-improv. hopefully you'll be able to do away with smoking
 

Phantasmal

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My teeth are substantially whiter than they were 6 months ago. A few months back, I picked up a Sonicare toothbrush with quadpacer. For those of you who don't know what a quadpacer is, it's basically just a timer on the toothbrush that goes off every 30 seconds, telling you to switch to a different quadrant of teeth (Front Top, Rear Top, Front Bottom, Rear Bottom). Therefore, each time you brush is 2 minutes. I do this 2 times a day, sometimes, but rarely, 3. It's a pain, but it did whiten my teeth some. Also, it's great for other dental reasons. If brushing 5 minutes a day prevents me from going through some terrible dental procedure 10 years from now, it'll be worth it to me.

I also used to drink NOTHING but soda. I dropped that altogether, for other reasons. Doing this probably led to some of the improvement.

Crest Whitestrips also work pretty good, but are limited only to the six middle teeth (upper and lower of course)
 

CapiCrimini

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so i increased my brushing to 3 times a day for a minute.
I have really weak gums... sadly I'm the 1 in 32 ratio that if I try anything rough or whitening for more then one time a week my gums bleed pretty bad... and no it's not ging. Just I inherited bad gums and soft teeth....

Try this.... Rembrant... The one I'm thinking of is Red in a Silver Box... I think It says 20minutes... anyway it comes with trays and some syringes of whitening gel... best part is you can return it for a ful refund after you used the whole thing... then buy a sencond one.... so for $20 you can REALLY WHITEN YOUR TEETH.... Stuffs at Walgreens... I'd do it once or twice a day... I've pulled off using a whole case in one day...[thats about 14 treatments per row of teeth]


After you have your teeth witened though make sure to get some good toothpaste or the whiteness can fade quickly... thats the other problem with doing more then 2-3 a day... you'll notice super whiteness then it fades a bit and settles.... where 2-3 a day.... it normally sstays where it is....


Otherwise you can go to a dentist and get it done professionaly
 

CapiCrimini

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i hear crest white strips are perfectly fine and safe.

I actually find them to be a *****.... after I found Rembrant I never turned back... trays are a lot easier.... WhiteStripes slip too much
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my gums bleed too most times, but it doesn't hurt that much
 

Duke Togo

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cap your teeth, or coat them with enamel. expensive, but the ultimate.
 

DJUofS

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Crest whitening strips work wonders, i've used them. I have gotten countless compliments on how white my teeth are now. All you do is take each strip and wear them for an hour, twice a day. Very easy, well worth it.
 
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