Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Teenage woes 2: Why don't you get a job?

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"Money is the root of all evil? Only poor people say that."

So, you are working on your bad habits, reading up on this site to sort out your mind set, the next step is to get a job.

NO BUTS ON THIS ONE. Work, you will need the money. If you don't need the money you aren't doing enough. If you are the kind of guy that sponges off his parents- wake up ***** boy. The is a line between having help and being supported. You need this, you NEED cash in this life.

It's just like anything else- effort goes in, good stuff comes out.

However, sometimes getting a job can be tricky. Unless you didn't know, most big stores don't "do" vacancies posters. Another big problem a lot of teenagers run into is thinking they can ask around with their friends to find somewhere with a vacancy. **** that. Your friends know **** all about the current staff vacancy status of your town.

Time to have a bit of confidence and just go into all the shops that are viable job possibilities and ASK. This is the best way to search for a job- do a job run. Take on one town at a time, moving on to ones further and further away that you can still get transport too, try towns on your train/bus line. Hit every shop, get all the forms, fill them in in a coffee shop, and hand them back the same day.

You will need to bring all the correct paper work with you- this may include passport, work permit, or national insurance number. Also, get your school dates and details written down. Finally the only other thing you'll need to do most forms is some references, get them sorted out too. Oh and an emergency number, and a pen.

Get that on a check list and get this **** done. It will get you meeting new people, get you money, get you independent, and will give you a good bit of rejection to deal with:p. Seriously, most places wont have you- get over it, and do more forms.

This may take a while to come together, don't worry, just keep at it. This can be helped by creating a system for motivation and direction, which I'll deal with next.

Next: Your System
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good post

But say you want a job but have no transportation

what then
 

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find something close to home, my friend was a bagger and he walked to work every day
 

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Yeah, or use public transport? Where do your friends work? Work with them and hitch a life. Seriously, the gains you'll get from this far outweigh the effort needed to sort it out.

Remember, there is always a solution. Never think something isn't worth the effort. Effort by itself is worthless, its like potential money- it's what you do with that effort that counts. Good luck with that one.

By the way, there are always other ways to earn money that don't require an employer... drug dealer/baby sitter/car washer anyone?
 

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This summer, I must have applied to about 10 places doing pretty much what is described.

Only one of them ended up calling me, and only after I went in a second time to ask about my "job status"... thankfully, it is really a pretty easy job ( mostly cashiering at a hardware store, and when it gets slow, I can do my homework. )

Getting a job isnt hard if you apply at many places, and if you arent a moron and go spend your paycheck the day you get it every week, you can really get a lot of money saved up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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