"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Teddy as a present?

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Hey fellas,

I gotta admit that my question is pretty gay, but it's something that is going through my mind right now and I would like to know what you think about it:

Would you give a girl (20 y.) a teddy as a present? Not for x-mas and not a big one, just a cute small one as a little surprise.

A lot of girls were giving me teddies as a present... I was not feeling that at alll... but I'm a guy and maybe girls think differently about this!?

Thank you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thissucks003

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Originally posted by 23*
Hey fellas,

I gotta admit that my question is pretty gay, but it's something that is going through my mind right now and I would like to know what you think about it:

Would you give a girl (20 y.) a teddy as a present? Not for x-mas and not a big one, just a cute small one as a little surprise.

A lot of girls were giving me teddies as a present... I was not feeling that at alll... but I'm a guy and maybe girls think differently about this!?

Thank you!
Are you talking about a teddy bear or a teddy as in lingere? If it is lingere, I say go for it. Have her model it on and help her take it off.
 

diablo

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Re: Re: Teddy as a present?

Originally posted by thissucks003
Are you talking about a teddy bear or a teddy as in lingere?
I was wondering the same thing, but came to the conclusion that he was talking about the stuffed bear instead of lingerie...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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