"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Teddy as a present?

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Hey fellas,

I gotta admit that my question is pretty gay, but it's something that is going through my mind right now and I would like to know what you think about it:

Would you give a girl (20 y.) a teddy as a present? Not for x-mas and not a big one, just a cute small one as a little surprise.

A lot of girls were giving me teddies as a present... I was not feeling that at alll... but I'm a guy and maybe girls think differently about this!?

Thank you!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by 23*
Hey fellas,

I gotta admit that my question is pretty gay, but it's something that is going through my mind right now and I would like to know what you think about it:

Would you give a girl (20 y.) a teddy as a present? Not for x-mas and not a big one, just a cute small one as a little surprise.

A lot of girls were giving me teddies as a present... I was not feeling that at alll... but I'm a guy and maybe girls think differently about this!?

Thank you!
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Are you talking about a teddy bear or a teddy as in lingere? If it is lingere, I say go for it. Have her model it on and help her take it off.
 
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Re: Re: Teddy as a present?

Originally posted by thissucks003
Are you talking about a teddy bear or a teddy as in lingere?
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I was wondering the same thing, but came to the conclusion that he was talking about the stuffed bear instead of lingerie...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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