Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
I'm familiar with doc love's approach to the game. I'm also familiar with some nlp and approaches and what not.Also I've read pook and senior fingerz in the dj bible years ago. What technique has worked for you?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Techniques
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Having no technique and realizing that if you need a technique, you have too much time on your hands and women are too important to you. In other words, ***** is too important to you and therefore, at the core there is probably some level of neediness, insecurity and desperation.
Techniques don't resonate with me. I say get to the core of evolutionary psychology and realize that you are either a provider beta or a genetic contributor alpha. Then chose which side of the coin you want to be on, change your behavior, actions and lifestyle to be congruent with that side and let the chips fall where they may.
Techniques don't resonate with me. I say get to the core of evolutionary psychology and realize that you are either a provider beta or a genetic contributor alpha. Then chose which side of the coin you want to be on, change your behavior, actions and lifestyle to be congruent with that side and let the chips fall where they may.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
NONE! can learn to banter,flirt, and just be a man without learning a "system"
scrouds
Master Don Juan
I wanted to build a boat. I figured it was small, I don't need to pay someone $40 for detailed plans. So i found some info online, a couple large forum posts of a dude's build, and went at it.sodbuster said:
I've screwed the pooch a number of times already and hacked my way out. There are still pieces of plywood in my backyard. I still don't have a boat, and at this point I could have picked something simple up on craplist and been on the water already.
Don't underestimate the usefulness of plans, especially for noobs. What seems elementary to someone that's already knee deep in it is very hard for the noob to get to.