Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
I'm familiar with doc love's approach to the game. I'm also familiar with some nlp and approaches and what not.Also I've read pook and senior fingerz in the dj bible years ago. What technique has worked for you?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Techniques
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Having no technique and realizing that if you need a technique, you have too much time on your hands and women are too important to you. In other words, ***** is too important to you and therefore, at the core there is probably some level of neediness, insecurity and desperation.
Techniques don't resonate with me. I say get to the core of evolutionary psychology and realize that you are either a provider beta or a genetic contributor alpha. Then chose which side of the coin you want to be on, change your behavior, actions and lifestyle to be congruent with that side and let the chips fall where they may.
Techniques don't resonate with me. I say get to the core of evolutionary psychology and realize that you are either a provider beta or a genetic contributor alpha. Then chose which side of the coin you want to be on, change your behavior, actions and lifestyle to be congruent with that side and let the chips fall where they may.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
NONE! can learn to banter,flirt, and just be a man without learning a "system"
scrouds
Master Don Juan
I wanted to build a boat. I figured it was small, I don't need to pay someone $40 for detailed plans. So i found some info online, a couple large forum posts of a dude's build, and went at it.sodbuster said:
I've screwed the pooch a number of times already and hacked my way out. There are still pieces of plywood in my backyard. I still don't have a boat, and at this point I could have picked something simple up on craplist and been on the water already.
Don't underestimate the usefulness of plans, especially for noobs. What seems elementary to someone that's already knee deep in it is very hard for the noob to get to.