Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
I'm familiar with doc love's approach to the game. I'm also familiar with some nlp and approaches and what not.Also I've read pook and senior fingerz in the dj bible years ago. What technique has worked for you?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Techniques
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Having no technique and realizing that if you need a technique, you have too much time on your hands and women are too important to you. In other words, ***** is too important to you and therefore, at the core there is probably some level of neediness, insecurity and desperation.
Techniques don't resonate with me. I say get to the core of evolutionary psychology and realize that you are either a provider beta or a genetic contributor alpha. Then chose which side of the coin you want to be on, change your behavior, actions and lifestyle to be congruent with that side and let the chips fall where they may.
Techniques don't resonate with me. I say get to the core of evolutionary psychology and realize that you are either a provider beta or a genetic contributor alpha. Then chose which side of the coin you want to be on, change your behavior, actions and lifestyle to be congruent with that side and let the chips fall where they may.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
NONE! can learn to banter,flirt, and just be a man without learning a "system"
scrouds
Master Don Juan
I wanted to build a boat. I figured it was small, I don't need to pay someone $40 for detailed plans. So i found some info online, a couple large forum posts of a dude's build, and went at it.sodbuster said:
I've screwed the pooch a number of times already and hacked my way out. There are still pieces of plywood in my backyard. I still don't have a boat, and at this point I could have picked something simple up on craplist and been on the water already.
Don't underestimate the usefulness of plans, especially for noobs. What seems elementary to someone that's already knee deep in it is very hard for the noob to get to.