Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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well put. i never had luck with techniques, so i've pretty much given up on forcing myself into things like that. the best thing i've gotten from this site (as far as i could gather) is that the key was to improve yourself for yourself. rather than focusing all my time into developing and mastering these techniques, i'm trying to focus on my other problems in life, and i found that with every one solved, i gain more confidence, more experience, and more happiness. then, i found that this had helped me overcome (not quite entirely, but almost) my nervousness around women. now, there's not enough left to pose any kind of problem. of course, i've become less nervous around almost everything else as well, such as being in front of a large group, talking to people i don't know, and being confronted by people who have the intention of hurting me. i've noticed also that when you have more actual confidence in yourself, it shows whereas all this fake confidence displayed in c+f shows you, as was said, a conceited person.
