"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Techniques" can only get you so far

Luveno

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Technique abuse doesn't make a man a true Don Juan.

Think about it this way:

Who is more respected: the geek who studies 24/7, or the Rhodes scholar genius who has a life?


The parallel is that memorizing canned neg-hits and openers is stupid. If you are ever put on the spot(and you will be) you will have NOTHING TO BACK IT UP! Unless you have an IQ of 230, you will NOT be able to think of a line for EVERY situation you're in.

So, what do you do?

Easy answer to that....







YOU LIVE FOR YOURSELF. THERE'S NO ONE MORE WORTH LIVING FOR.


Have a life. Live for your own enjoyment. The girls will follow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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luveno your right,

memorizing false lines is cracko i agree,
for one becuase its sad, and i feel sorry for the guy who sits there cramming as many chat lines into his head as he can before he goes out...check mate kid, ha, whoops

and on the other hand techniques are good, for one, if your genuinly funny,(not me) and enjoy teasing girls then your attitude comes off as attractive anyway...
you dont need to rehurse the c&f lines, its natrual...

thats what is important, being genuine... memorising neg hits is not genuine, no...
having a wicked personality is, yes, making fun of someone in good humor is genuine...
its not the lines that people are learning here, its having that GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR that people are learning.

ooh, and trying too secretly hypnotise a girl to like you is wrong too!
 
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