"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Techniques" can only get you so far

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Technique abuse doesn't make a man a true Don Juan.

Think about it this way:

Who is more respected: the geek who studies 24/7, or the Rhodes scholar genius who has a life?


The parallel is that memorizing canned neg-hits and openers is stupid. If you are ever put on the spot(and you will be) you will have NOTHING TO BACK IT UP! Unless you have an IQ of 230, you will NOT be able to think of a line for EVERY situation you're in.

So, what do you do?

Easy answer to that....







YOU LIVE FOR YOURSELF. THERE'S NO ONE MORE WORTH LIVING FOR.


Have a life. Live for your own enjoyment. The girls will follow.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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luveno your right,

memorizing false lines is cracko i agree,
for one becuase its sad, and i feel sorry for the guy who sits there cramming as many chat lines into his head as he can before he goes out...check mate kid, ha, whoops

and on the other hand techniques are good, for one, if your genuinly funny,(not me) and enjoy teasing girls then your attitude comes off as attractive anyway...
you dont need to rehurse the c&f lines, its natrual...

thats what is important, being genuine... memorising neg hits is not genuine, no...
having a wicked personality is, yes, making fun of someone in good humor is genuine...
its not the lines that people are learning here, its having that GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR that people are learning.

ooh, and trying too secretly hypnotise a girl to like you is wrong too!
 
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