Teasing

[Lordlaxative]

When conversating with a girl... how much should a DJ make fun of her? I mean I have been in both situations (I made fun of her too much and hurt her feelings, and she ended up thinking I was gay.) I want to know, how much is a good amount of "picking" at her?

 

[Slickster]

It really depends on the girl.

Some chicks are low self esteem cry babies who will not do well if you are busting on them at all. I personally avoid chicks like this cuz they're no fun.

On the other hand there are some chicks who can dish it out and take it too. You just have to start slow and judge how far you can go.

In general though making fun of someone shouldn't be something to worry about. If they do something silly or funny then bust them on it if its appropriate. Teasing shouldn't be your main focus.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

I dont take teasing lightly when its with a person thats not a friend, or not my bf.

so i'd be careful. Try a little, but if she gets really mad about it, dont do it again.

 

[ScrewIt]

i tease girls that i know/friends/acquaintences everynow and then and usually i have no problems. they smile when i do it.
and they know im just kidding with them.

i guess it all really depends how you tease them.
dont insult them. dont criticize them. if u avoid these 2 you're on the ball.

and dont say "just kidding" .
you dont have to apologize for anything....well...unless u actually do end up insulting them

 

[NaturallySelected]

Depends on the woman, some girls will know you are only teasing but others might be hurt. Just be careful with teasing, I've made the mistake before of saying a few hurtful things, really screwed up my chances. Just watch her responses, if she's laughing, and hits you playfully now and again, then it's working. I teased this one girl at work, I could see in her eyes that she was offended, so I stopped. But then theres another one who plays along, so it's cool.