"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Teasing Her

Natt

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Hey, I've been seeing a girl for about 2 weeks now.

I know to keep her and to go further I have to

AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION.

Now please remind me of all the ways to do this
BEFORE I BECOME A WUSS ! ! !
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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aBAzLLnA

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The hell are you talking about? Do a search for tips, cuz there are plenty around... And read the bible.
 

Jerky Boi

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Yep..and what the hell does amplify the attraction mean? You're being pretty vague.
 

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Go out and see other girls because you can only act a challange for so long but you can be a challange forever. If shes going out with you you probably dont need more attraction but more rapport. The amount of attraction needed is minimum it is more important to create rapport. I can't really give you more advice until you give more information.
 

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Cheers for the advice Green Day.

For those who don't understand the term AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION.
It's basically creating more attraction between a person that is already attracted to you.. This keeps the relationship interesting, exciting.. etc. ALL THE GOOD STUFF.
I just need some Quick Tips on how to do it.. This can help all of us.

Keep it comin.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Natt
Cheers for the advice Green Day.

For those who don't understand the term AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION.
It's basically creating more attraction between a person that is already attracted to you.. This keeps the relationship interesting, exciting.. etc. ALL THE GOOD STUFF.
I just need some Quick Tips on how to do it.. This can help all of us.

Keep it comin.
why dont you become an interesting, cool and funny person to be around. Therefore that will automatically amplify the attraction, known as creating rapport.
So improve yourself and all else, including girls will follow.
 

aBAzLLnA

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I just need some Quick Tips on how to do it.. This can help all of us.
Everyone's looking for the quick-fix these days... Sigh... Good luck with those quick-fixes buddy...
 

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Keep the inner game of a dominant male.

Don't forget that in every situation, there is an opportunity to amplify attraction and an opportunity to kill attraction, or in other words, lower your sexual value. Know how to handle tests and pass them all with flying colors.

Always keep sexual tension going. You wouldn't want her to lose interest. Use "two steps forward, one step back" (david deangelo), "push-pull tactics and tension loops" (swinggcat) and basically make her keep chasing you.

But also remember that the key to life is balance - you dont want to go to any extremities. If you're too indifferent, she will give up on you. And im pretty sure you dont need to be reminded that if you're too nice, you will be seen as a wussbag AFC and therefore unnattractive...but theres a reminder anyway lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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