"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Teasing Her
- Thread starter Natt
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
For those who don't understand the term AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION.
It's basically creating more attraction between a person that is already attracted to you.. This keeps the relationship interesting, exciting.. etc. ALL THE GOOD STUFF.
I just need some Quick Tips on how to do it.. This can help all of us.
Keep it comin.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
why dont you become an interesting, cool and funny person to be around. Therefore that will automatically amplify the attraction, known as creating rapport.
So improve yourself and all else, including girls will follow.
Michael Chief
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Don't forget that in every situation, there is an opportunity to amplify attraction and an opportunity to kill attraction, or in other words, lower your sexual value. Know how to handle tests and pass them all with flying colors.
Always keep sexual tension going. You wouldn't want her to lose interest. Use "two steps forward, one step back" (david deangelo), "push-pull tactics and tension loops" (swinggcat) and basically make her keep chasing you.
But also remember that the key to life is balance - you dont want to go to any extremities. If you're too indifferent, she will give up on you. And im pretty sure you dont need to be reminded that if you're too nice, you will be seen as a wussbag AFC and therefore unnattractive...but theres a reminder anyway lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.