"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teased these girls, and they got annoyed.

Jhcl4000

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First of all, I think of teasing to be a way of flirting, and teasing sarcastically is my favorite way to flirt, is that so wrong?

To the story! Couple of girls in the gym working out together, one was hott. they looked younger than me. They're fvcking around with a crunch machine, I walk by on my way to the water fountain.

Me: You all having a problem *jokingly and with a smile*.
*They smile*
Girl: *tries to explain what she's doing or something* (damn what a memory I have)
Me: Well, it looks like you got a problem to me! (smile and continue to walk)
*they laugh*
Me: *walking by the other way to go back to the weight room, girl is still fvcking around on the machine* You kinda just gotta do a sit-up, not that hard... *sarcastic voice and smile*
Girl: *says something about knowing that*
Me: It's good if you add some weight, too. *same sarcastic voice and a smile*

They laugh a little and I walk away.

I do a set or two and head to the water fountain again. They're on a different machine.

Me: Gave up on the other machine already? Couple of quitters here! *smile*
Girl: More like beginners...

These girls had dilated pupils in a well lit area (which I actually think don't mean sh!t, just like all the other IOI's, don't mean sh!t, plus I'm thinking exercising dilates your pupils). So I sit down and TRY to talk to them but they really just seem annoyed as soon as I ask them something and actually try to build something with them. I saw this, said something about them seeming annoyed, which got a response about me making fun of them, and I walked away. Didn't see them again.

I'm actually not trying to over-analyze this, but share it with you all so if I did something "bad," you can tell me and I won't do it again, thus I improve myself.

It's funny because a girl I tease in my weightlifting class seems to like being teased... A LOT. But these chicks just got annoyed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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horaholic

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Real smooth bro. Next time make sure to wear a big fuzzy hat and read her palms.
 

Jhcl4000

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I'm already doing that... B!tches love my big fuzzy purple hat.
 
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