"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Teased these girls, and they got annoyed.

Jhcl4000

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First of all, I think of teasing to be a way of flirting, and teasing sarcastically is my favorite way to flirt, is that so wrong?

To the story! Couple of girls in the gym working out together, one was hott. they looked younger than me. They're fvcking around with a crunch machine, I walk by on my way to the water fountain.

Me: You all having a problem *jokingly and with a smile*.
*They smile*
Girl: *tries to explain what she's doing or something* (damn what a memory I have)
Me: Well, it looks like you got a problem to me! (smile and continue to walk)
*they laugh*
Me: *walking by the other way to go back to the weight room, girl is still fvcking around on the machine* You kinda just gotta do a sit-up, not that hard... *sarcastic voice and smile*
Girl: *says something about knowing that*
Me: It's good if you add some weight, too. *same sarcastic voice and a smile*

They laugh a little and I walk away.

I do a set or two and head to the water fountain again. They're on a different machine.

Me: Gave up on the other machine already? Couple of quitters here! *smile*
Girl: More like beginners...

These girls had dilated pupils in a well lit area (which I actually think don't mean sh!t, just like all the other IOI's, don't mean sh!t, plus I'm thinking exercising dilates your pupils). So I sit down and TRY to talk to them but they really just seem annoyed as soon as I ask them something and actually try to build something with them. I saw this, said something about them seeming annoyed, which got a response about me making fun of them, and I walked away. Didn't see them again.

I'm actually not trying to over-analyze this, but share it with you all so if I did something "bad," you can tell me and I won't do it again, thus I improve myself.

It's funny because a girl I tease in my weightlifting class seems to like being teased... A LOT. But these chicks just got annoyed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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Real smooth bro. Next time make sure to wear a big fuzzy hat and read her palms.
 

Jhcl4000

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I'm already doing that... B!tches love my big fuzzy purple hat.
 
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