"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tease POF women by this message !!

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I was bored and I decided to play on okcupid women and tease them .
I send a message to women older than me and wrote "If you wasn't older than me you would be perfect match" . :cool:

2 out of 5 women Deleted their profile(yes deleted they didn't ignore me ) . one of them sent insult to me so I insult her back .
the 3third woman is very hot sent a polite message to me explaining what I bothered :) .

bty all the 5 women I choice was hot women in early 30 so not sure how that apply to younger women .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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evan12 said:
I was bored and I decided to play on okcupid women and tease them .
I send a message to women older than me and wrote "If you wasn't older than me you would be perfect match" . :cool:

2 out of 5 women Deleted their profile(yes deleted they didn't ignore me ) . one of them sent insult to me so I insult her back .
the 3third woman is very hot sent a polite message to me explaining what I bothered :) .

bty all the 5 women I choice was hot women in early 30 so not sure how that apply to younger women .
I expected more negative comments/insults from the girls online.

Most girls online have a self-righteous, paper-thin ego. They take themselves so seriously and get offended by virtually anything other than a gushing compliment (that's why they are online after all).

P.S.: Trollolololo! Have fun!

I had a girl get offended because I said: "Awww you're tiny!"

REALLY? How is that so offensive?

If you challenge a girl on BS in her profile, be prepared for insults. Most girls online can't take the truth (which is again, why they are on there after all).

From my experience, online dating is most fun for trolling and nothing more.
 

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Ummm...ok...
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I had a girl get offended because I said: "Awww you're tiny!"

REALLY? How is that so offensive?
That's not just the internet. Women in general get offended and butt hurt very easily; i'm sure you know that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I expected more negative comments/insults from the girls online.

Most girls online have a self-righteous, paper-thin ego. They take themselves so seriously and get offended by virtually anything other than a gushing compliment (that's why they are online after all).

P.S.: Trollolololo! Have fun!

I had a girl get offended because I said: "Awww you're tiny!"

REALLY? How is that so offensive?

If you challenge a girl on BS in her profile, be prepared for insults. Most girls online can't take the truth (which is again, why they are on there after all).

From my experience, online dating is most fun for trolling and nothing more.
yes actually , I start using online dating for trolling , I got many dates from it , but hounstly I start feeling lately I am putting too much to get a date from there , so I start using their women as experiment mice to see what will be their reaction for different messages .
if women insult me I just insult them back and harder .
 

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evan12 said:
yes actually , I start using online dating for trolling , I got many dates from it , but hounstly I start feeling lately I am putting too much to get a date from there , so I start using their women as experiment mice to see what will be their reaction for different messages .
if women insult me I just insult them back and harder .

That's how I figured out how to get positive replies. Used every one of them as experimental hamsters. Kept tweaking things, putting up my best pictures, experimenting with better openers, then seeing how quick I could get numbers. Once I got it all down I wanted to see how it would work for other dudes. They picked it up. Did their own thing. And took off with it.

Online "dating" is 98% pics, 1% opener, 1% profile.
 

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I asked one if she was cross-eyed, she kinda did look like one, and had some banter exchange later on. I just got booty-called by some single mom at 2 am, but it didn't seem all legit to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HalfAddict said:
Ahah I once had a girl spaz out because I made fun of her cat. no ****. Good ol okcupid.
Girls doing online dating can be lumped in a few categories:

1) Cat ladies
2) Single moms
3) Simply unattractive or flat out ugly
4) Attractive, but mentally & emotionally disturbed beyond hope of repair
 

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evan12 said:
"If you wasn't older than me you would be perfect match"
I imagine she's thinking:
If he could use correct grammar I might actually talk to him
I assume you're 14 and she's what...16 or over?

It's:
"If you weren't older than me, you would be a perfect match"
Try and at least appear to look like you know what you're doing, you smooth criminal, you!
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Girls doing online dating can be lumped in a few categories:

1) Cat ladies
2) Single moms
3) Simply unattractive or flat out ugly
4) Attractive, but mentally & emotionally disturbed beyond hope of repair
****ing CAT LADIES hahahaha **** made me laugh out loud eating my morning oatmeal hahaha.

I have a female friend that keeps trying to get me to go on eharmony because the guy she is with now she met on that site.

**** that lol...you summed it up exactly with that list of 4 haha
 

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Noodles said:
I imagine she's thinking:


I assume you're 14 and she's what...16 or over?

It's:


Try and at least appear to look like you know what you're doing, you smooth criminal, you!
Actually English is not my first language , thank you for correction

I expected more negative comments/insults from the girls online.
if you are on POF expect more insults , women on POF is just peace of trash and they have some mental problems.
most of them are women over 25 who dont want to accept the fact that their beauty is fading so they do every thing to prove they are still hot , getting email from men is a best way for them to still think they are hot just as before . getting email that remind them of what they are drive them crazy
 

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evan12 said:
if you are on POF expect more insults , women on POF is just peace of trash and they have some mental problems.
most of them are women over 25 who dont want to accept the fact that their beauty is fading so they do every thing to prove they are still hot , getting email from men is a best way for them to still think they are hot just as before . getting email that remind them of what they are drive them crazy
True, POF is the worst of the two. But even on OKC I noticed that many of the women on there were extremely defensive or hostile. Some not-so-favorable (yet relatively innocent) comments of mine were met with completely disproportionate hostile responses. This finding proves to me that most women online have a huge chip on their shoulder and that they are online for a good reason.

And you are right, when you remind a girl that she is not so hot in a decent way (of course don't be rude for no reason), she is likely to go ballistic.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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