"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had a 4 day weekend at a beach house with some friends this past week. We were drinkn around the fire down by the water when a couple of girls stroll along so me and my wingman invited them over.. they finished their walk and stopped by on their way back. I invited them back the next night and they came over.

Me and my WM were working these girls and my girl was flirting like hell. Telling me how she rode horses and was .. she must say.. damn good at riding. she was acting like a freak. i asked her to take a walk down the beach with me and we did. I picked out a nice spot and laid down there. The girl (HB7) was next to me.. I went in for the kiss and we made out for about a minute until she pulled back some and she started making some sexy small talk.. i went back in and she pulled back and giggled saying "i'm not as shy as I seem.. i like being a 'temptress'" I just laughed at her and we started making out again.. I started to feel on her and she stopped again. By this point I was getting pissed and told her she was a tease.. which she didnt like. Well she then told me, " You know you can kiss me now if you want" so i replied with, " You can kiss me since you already got your teases in" and she did. THEN SHE PULLED BACK AGAIN and starts with the "What are you thinking RIGHT NOW". But I said some bull**** about lookn at the stars which is what she had made a comment about earlier.. Well she kissed me again and then pulled back and checked her watch and said she had to be getting back soon and said to me "Are you going to make me walk back by myself or what do I have to do to get you to walk me back?" I told her she would just have to get up off me for me to walk back. She looked stunned and sat up then I sat up and she rubbed my back a little bit and she said "What did you want to happen?" and I said.. "That was pretty much what I expected." and that was it.

She was a bit younger than me so I dont know if she was scared and a virgin.. or just a tease..

What do yall think about this?
 

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Originally posted by Seeph
...said to me "Are you going to make me walk back by myself or what do I have to do to get you to walk me back?"
Alright! Time to get that BJ.... :D

I told her she would just have to get up off me for me to walk back. She looked stunned...
Doh! :rolleyes:
 

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yea i see that now JJ.. i guess i was just getting discouraged with her tease.. shouldn't have let it phase me.:eek:
 

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How young are we talking about here? And did you walk her home. I wouldn't have bothered.

Her 'temptress' as a choice of words might mean she's a tease, but whether she's a tease or a virgin who isn't 'ready' (which btw is up to you to seduce/engineer situation), it seemed to me that you should've got out of there quick, especially if you wanted something more than some kiss.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she just turned 17 and I just turned 19. I didnt walk her back home but we both walked back to the fire where my friends were and she and her friend left from there. I could have tried harder to get it done when she asked what she had to do.. but at that point i didnt care all that much to keep playn a game.

Should I have just gone for the kill when she asked what she had to do?
 

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She's a tease and likes playing games, it gives them power over you and the situation.

You should have countered back with; "What do you want to do?"

so you gave the ball to her with one simple and direct and polite question.
 

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You should have countered back with; "What do you want to do?"
so you gave the ball to her with one simple and direct and polite question.
Women never return balls. Be careful which ones you give it to. If I had a say in this situation, give it only to your wife. She can't take it anywhere but your house.

You should've been more aggressive and never ask her questions relation to anything sexual you want to do. Just watch her moves and get her wet. That should be enough to get those panties out of the way. Actions will get you sex. Talk is just that. TALK!
 

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What did you want to happen?"
Even though it was a little late, you should've gone for some action here.

That was pretty much what I expected.
Wrong move playa. That tells her you didn't expect much because you weren't in her leage. You should've told her that you expected much more from her and her behavior. Say it with authority, give her that sexual/authorative eye, and make a bald move. Grab her and put her on your ****.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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