"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Teaching English Abroad

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Has anyone ever done this before? I'm really considering this for 1-2 years to pay off my student debt and also to network and develop some skills abroad that I can use to polish up my resume and perhaps try to open up some sort of import/export business on the side or something. I'm really leaning towards China, mainly Shanghai. I'm wondering how hiring process went? They ask for a casual photo. What type of photo would they be looking for strategically to be hired? Should I be dressed business professional/casual or just have some pic of me on vacation chilling? Also I hear about of scam recruitment agencies. I'm also a asian Canadian. I hear they are racist as fcuk down there and would only hire mainly european looking guys. What are my chances of getting a teaching job there?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've done a lot of business in China over the years - Beijing, Nanjing, Shanghai, Suchow.

Most Chinese are not racist. They may feel bad for you that you weren't born there. But that's as far as it ever went for me.

You sure you're not thinking of Japan?

Dress to impress. In any of China's business cities, that can go a long way.
 

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Tictac said:
I've done a lot of business in China over the years - Beijing, Nanjing, Shanghai, Suchow.

Most Chinese are not racist. They may feel bad for you that you weren't born there. But that's as far as it ever went for me.

You sure you're not thinking of Japan?

Dress to impress. In any of China's business cities, that can go a long way.
Nope, China.

http://www.berkeley.edu/news/students/2004/china/china6.shtml
http://www.thebeijinger.com/forum/2011/08/19/australian-born-chinese-do-i-even-have-chance
http://taiwanbornamerican.blogspot.ca/2010/11/its-not-easy-being-yellow-teaching.html

Those are from a few years ago though, not sure how much things have changed though. I guess I will get someone to take a picture of me in a suit with a tie smiling.
 

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Gonna be difficult to get a job in Asia as a black guy, just a heads up. There isn't any way around this.

Whites get preference over everyone else in Asia, if that pisses you off, don't apply.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LiveFreeX said:
Gonna be difficult to get a job in Asia as a black guy, just a heads up. There isn't any way around this.

Whites get preference over everyone else in Asia, if that pisses you off, don't apply.
Good thing I'm not a black guy then.
 

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My sister's ex husband does this. He has taught English in Hong Kong, Dubai, Malaysia, Afghanistan, and last I knew it was in freaking Iraq. I last saw him about a year ago and had a long talk about his work. He lives and works on the same campus and when he has to leave they give him armed guards. He is paid extremely well and says he doesn't work all that hard, most of the pay he gets is because of where he is located, not what he doing. Not the cup of tea for me but he says he loves it so much that at 72 he has no plans to retire anytime soon.
 
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how do you teach English if you don't know the local language fluently? Are you claiming that this guy knows 5 other languages well enough to teach English in those languages?
 

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Some of those programs dont require the instructor to know the local language.... they just want an english speaker for the students to **ahem** "conversate" with... its the best way to learn...
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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