"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Teacher, teacher- The technique

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Technique. You need that if you want to get anywhere in life. But in this case you need to seem to have a lack of.

Here is how it goes. You need to get good at something. Not great. Just good enough that you don't embarrass yourself by doing it. My favorite is danceing. Then all you need to do is use it as an ice breaker, and your in with some instant attention if all goes well. Ask her to say teach you to dance. Then follow what she is doing and do it poorly then after awhile bust out all your moves and show her that not only she is a good teacher, but she has got a fast learner on her hands.

Then to show her how great full tell her you are taking down her number and your going to take her out to dinner and that your not taking no for an answser. It should work. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Did anyone find this helpful? Or even interesting? I'd like some feed back on ways I could make this work even better. :yes:
 

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I that sort of thing works sometimes especially if she's teaching you to dance "works for me anyway I suck at dancing";)
 

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Well it doesn't need to be an opener. It could just help build you up into a fun guy who's comfortable with flaws.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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