"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teacher, teacher- The technique

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Technique. You need that if you want to get anywhere in life. But in this case you need to seem to have a lack of.

Here is how it goes. You need to get good at something. Not great. Just good enough that you don't embarrass yourself by doing it. My favorite is danceing. Then all you need to do is use it as an ice breaker, and your in with some instant attention if all goes well. Ask her to say teach you to dance. Then follow what she is doing and do it poorly then after awhile bust out all your moves and show her that not only she is a good teacher, but she has got a fast learner on her hands.

Then to show her how great full tell her you are taking down her number and your going to take her out to dinner and that your not taking no for an answser. It should work. :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Did anyone find this helpful? Or even interesting? I'd like some feed back on ways I could make this work even better. :yes:
 

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I that sort of thing works sometimes especially if she's teaching you to dance "works for me anyway I suck at dancing";)
 

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Well it doesn't need to be an opener. It could just help build you up into a fun guy who's comfortable with flaws.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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