"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Teacher is fvcking ruining my game.

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Seriously, this ****ing teacher is ruining my game. Anytime I try to sit with my gf, she moves me. Or has to say some smartass remark about us. It ****ing pisses me off. It's the only time I get to see my girlfriend too. I think my gf is growing bored of me too because of it. Before we started going out we were really flirty and we had a lot of fun, I was fun to be around. But now that she basically moves me from everyone, I'm like a ****ing loner. I can't be that "fun" guy anymore. The teacher is a ****ing *****. I ****ing hate her. The ***** took my cell phone today too, and wont ****ing give it back. Ugh, what would a DJ do? I feel like my gf is bored of me, I see her talking (flirting?) with other guys too. I don't know if it's a **** test or not, but I don't think anything of it. But I'd still like to be able to see my girl whenever I damn well ****ing want to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SharinganUser

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A DJ wouldn't sweat it. I'll give you a piece of advice that two seperate DJ's gave me. You gotta know that at the end of the day, she is going home with you, it doesn't matter what happens in the mean time."
 

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Good advice, I'm not sweating it. Like I've been trying to keep my cool, but lately I just feel like there is no "spark". I feel like our relationship isnt going to last long. Oh well. I'm not really that attached anyway.
 

Ice Cold

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Pay attention in class and don't be the clown that jokes around. Too immature.

You might be annoyed at 2 things: your teacher for making you sit away. And the vibe you're picking up from the girlfriend.

Separate them in your mind and then deal with them one by one.
 

Mr_rogers

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Make plans to see your girlfriend after school. That's about all you can do.

As for the teacher... tell her to either give back your cell phone, or she can pick up the monthly bill. No chance in hell I'd put up with that ****.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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Don't blame your teacher for lack of interest by your girlfriend. You are not suppose to flirt in class but do your studies and it shouldn't affect your situation.

NFC said:
It's the only time I get to see my girlfriend too.
Are you saying you can't meet after school or on weekends? You know its bullsh1t and you are making excuses again.
 

Cod3r

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How old are you, 13 ??

I agree with wat someone else said, ur gf has little interest and you're annoyed. Fix the problems with your girl first, teacher has nothing to do with you and her. Stop whining also, it makes you look like a loser.


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NFC said:
I feel like my gf is bored of me, I see her talking (flirting?) with other guys too. I don't know if it's a **** test or not, but I don't think anything of it. But I'd still like to be able to see my girl whenever I damn well ****ing want to.
You only can see your g/f in class??? HUH????? Your girl talks to other guys and that equals "flirting"?? HUH??You are getting paranoid!!!

Yoyr teacher obviously sees you as disruptive to the learning environment!!!
 

NorPacWolf

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Your teacher's obligation is to teach. Your obligation is to learn, or to at least not to get in the teacher's way of doing his or her job. There is absolutely no way you're over 15 years old, so I'll be lenient. Think with your head in the classroom next time, not with your...

Get it?
 

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It's a ****ing journalism class. She doesn't teach, we write articles, and I happened to have my done at the time. And I turn 17 tomorrow, actually. Heh. :|
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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