"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Teacher is fvcking ruining my game.

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Seriously, this ****ing teacher is ruining my game. Anytime I try to sit with my gf, she moves me. Or has to say some smartass remark about us. It ****ing pisses me off. It's the only time I get to see my girlfriend too. I think my gf is growing bored of me too because of it. Before we started going out we were really flirty and we had a lot of fun, I was fun to be around. But now that she basically moves me from everyone, I'm like a ****ing loner. I can't be that "fun" guy anymore. The teacher is a ****ing *****. I ****ing hate her. The ***** took my cell phone today too, and wont ****ing give it back. Ugh, what would a DJ do? I feel like my gf is bored of me, I see her talking (flirting?) with other guys too. I don't know if it's a **** test or not, but I don't think anything of it. But I'd still like to be able to see my girl whenever I damn well ****ing want to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SharinganUser

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A DJ wouldn't sweat it. I'll give you a piece of advice that two seperate DJ's gave me. You gotta know that at the end of the day, she is going home with you, it doesn't matter what happens in the mean time."
 

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Good advice, I'm not sweating it. Like I've been trying to keep my cool, but lately I just feel like there is no "spark". I feel like our relationship isnt going to last long. Oh well. I'm not really that attached anyway.
 

Ice Cold

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Pay attention in class and don't be the clown that jokes around. Too immature.

You might be annoyed at 2 things: your teacher for making you sit away. And the vibe you're picking up from the girlfriend.

Separate them in your mind and then deal with them one by one.
 

Mr_rogers

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Make plans to see your girlfriend after school. That's about all you can do.

As for the teacher... tell her to either give back your cell phone, or she can pick up the monthly bill. No chance in hell I'd put up with that ****.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJDamage

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Don't blame your teacher for lack of interest by your girlfriend. You are not suppose to flirt in class but do your studies and it shouldn't affect your situation.

NFC said:
It's the only time I get to see my girlfriend too.
Are you saying you can't meet after school or on weekends? You know its bullsh1t and you are making excuses again.
 

Cod3r

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How old are you, 13 ??

I agree with wat someone else said, ur gf has little interest and you're annoyed. Fix the problems with your girl first, teacher has nothing to do with you and her. Stop whining also, it makes you look like a loser.


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NFC said:
I feel like my gf is bored of me, I see her talking (flirting?) with other guys too. I don't know if it's a **** test or not, but I don't think anything of it. But I'd still like to be able to see my girl whenever I damn well ****ing want to.
You only can see your g/f in class??? HUH????? Your girl talks to other guys and that equals "flirting"?? HUH??You are getting paranoid!!!

Yoyr teacher obviously sees you as disruptive to the learning environment!!!
 

NorPacWolf

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Your teacher's obligation is to teach. Your obligation is to learn, or to at least not to get in the teacher's way of doing his or her job. There is absolutely no way you're over 15 years old, so I'll be lenient. Think with your head in the classroom next time, not with your...

Get it?
 

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It's a ****ing journalism class. She doesn't teach, we write articles, and I happened to have my done at the time. And I turn 17 tomorrow, actually. Heh. :|
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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