"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Teach english overseas???

Kupid Diggs

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Anyone got the website about teaching english in different countries around the world? It sounds interesting to say the least... Thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ken785

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It sounds like it'll be the coolest thing...to be able to live in another country for a year and live the culture...i heard the pay is crap...but the experience should be unforgettable. Still i would like to do that after college...take a couple years of my life to experience living in a different part of the world, in a different culture while im still in my 20s.

You should also know that there's a stigma with teaching English overseas, and that's that the only people that do it are registered sex offenders, convicts, and perverts that just wanna go over there to get laid by their students...
 

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Well the truth is there are a lot of trash that teach English here in Asia. I'd say its a good short term job but don't make a career out of it. Those guys who do are crackpots. Your pay is good compared to a local.. you can make the most money in Korea.. but there is some serious xenophobia and racism there.. Anyways making 30,000 a year there is like making 55,000 in the US.. You'll be ok financially and be able to kick it in Seoul on weekdays and mack bytches in tokyo on the weekend.
 

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that sounds kool.
i'm chinese, but came here when i was 3.
so if i go back and teach, there'll be no racism :)

anyone know how you could find a job like that?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ken785

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Crazy Asian said:
that sounds kool.
i'm chinese, but came here when i was 3.
so if i go back and teach, there'll be no racism :)

anyone know how you could find a job like that?
Yeah there would be...against YOU! If their paying top dollar to learn English...they want a blonde haired blue eyed person to do it. Since youre Chinese..they'd probably insult you by offering you the "local pay'.
 

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Dave's ESL Cafe is a big site for this. The address is: http://www.eslcafe.com/

You'll hear a lot of differing opinions and people giving you negative and positive experiences and comments (this thread alone has that). I'd take everything with a grain of salt and do your own research and draw your own conclusions.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
Well the truth is there are a lot of trash that teach English here in Asia. I'd say its a good short term job but don't make a career out of it. Those guys who do are crackpots. Your pay is good compared to a local.. you can make the most money in Korea.. but there is some serious xenophobia and racism there.. Anyways making 30,000 a year there is like making 55,000 in the US.. You'll be ok financially and be able to kick it in Seoul on weekdays and mack bytches in tokyo on the weekend.
A lot of weeabos go to especially Japan in the hopes of landing such a job. Definitely worse than crackpots is the wannabes.
 

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My sister is going to china to teach english this september, it does sound interesting doesn't it.
 

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fuzzx said:
Teachers:

All the academics goto Japan, beginners & nutters goto china, ex-cons in Brazil, Gay Pedo's in Mexico (Mormons), and the fat feminazis to Korea.

Yotsuya-san: Don't forget the otaku, christ they are the worst.
Right on, fuzzx, about those otaku.:up: Most of the weeabos and wapanese are hardcore self-styled otaku. If only they knew that the average Japanese outgrows anime by the time they're in college. It will definitely be a wakeup call for them once they discover most of the Japanese students they teach have never heard of Bleach or Naruto.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Also, I remember hearing that they don't really look at anyone under 25 years old or so. It might be to avoid attracting too many anime nerds.
 
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