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Don Juan
Anyone got the website about teaching english in different countries around the world? It sounds interesting to say the least... Thanks in advance.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeah there would be...against YOU! If their paying top dollar to learn English...they want a blonde haired blue eyed person to do it. Since youre Chinese..they'd probably insult you by offering you the "local pay'.Crazy Asian said:that sounds kool.
i'm chinese, but came here when i was 3.
so if i go back and teach, there'll be no racism
anyone know how you could find a job like that?
A lot of weeabos go to especially Japan in the hopes of landing such a job. Definitely worse than crackpots is the wannabes.3countriesPlan said:Well the truth is there are a lot of trash that teach English here in Asia. I'd say its a good short term job but don't make a career out of it. Those guys who do are crackpots. Your pay is good compared to a local.. you can make the most money in Korea.. but there is some serious xenophobia and racism there.. Anyways making 30,000 a year there is like making 55,000 in the US.. You'll be ok financially and be able to kick it in Seoul on weekdays and mack bytches in tokyo on the weekend.
Right on, fuzzx, about those otaku.fuzzx said:Teachers:
All the academics goto Japan, beginners & nutters goto china, ex-cons in Brazil, Gay Pedo's in Mexico (Mormons), and the fat feminazis to Korea.
Yotsuya-san: Don't forget the otaku, christ they are the worst.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.