"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tax lein properties

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:D Does anyone know about tax lein properties?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah. The property is repossessed by the bank or the big G when taxes/mortgage isn't paid. Depending on how much is owed, how the loans are set up, it can be a bargain, a loss, or a hassle.

Leins are essentially what a bank does. You borrow money from the bank for the property, the bank has a lein again'st your property where if you fail to pay enough times, they can seize the property.
 

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any good real estate conferences that u recommend?I heard A.I.G ig good and russ whitney.
 

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Docs said:
Yeah. The property is repossessed by the bank or the big G when taxes/mortgage isn't paid. Depending on how much is owed, how the loans are set up, it can be a bargain, a loss, or a hassle.

Leins are essentially what a bank does. You borrow money from the bank for the property, the bank has a lein again'st your property where if you fail to pay enough times, they can seize the property.

No.

Tax liens are different.

When you don't pay your property tax, you get a tax lien slapped on your property. This is not a bank lien, this is a government lien.

I can come along and buy the tax lien (usually at auction for pennies on the dollar) , pay off the back taxes. The property then enters a redemption period and after a few months one of 2 things can happen:

1. I can foreclose on you at the end of the redemption period. The property becomes mine, free and clear. Any mortgages are wiped out as a result of the lien, (State debts trump other creditors, so the banks take a loss in this situation) so I can keep the property or resell it at full market value.


2. you can redeem the lien by paying what you owe during the redemption period.. In such a scenario, you keep the property and i get my deposit back with interest. (the rate varies by state but it can be as high as 50% like it is in Texas)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have it sending me the weekly properties. There's 17 in Toronto right now. I'm still confused on the matter though
 

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Docs said:
Enlighten us more :)
-Any difference between our two countries?
probably, but I don't know how it is in other countries.

I recommend getting a few books and reading up on it. Some seminars (From companies such as Income Strategies Institute) also teach this, but seminars that teach anything worthwhile instead of just teaser info can be very expensive (a few thousand $$$, easily). Similar info can be found in books for a lot less.
 

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I'd recommend that you go to your local courthouse or government building and ask the employees. Also, real estate auctions are great places to meet investors who are usually very open about teaching the basics to new people.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone know of any forums like this one?:rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A lien on the property is an amount that is owed to someone - for whatever reason - it could be court ordered - must pay before you sell your property or the new owner is responsible! This is why you get a "title check" before you buy the property to determine if the property is cleared of any debts.
 

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Ya my dad has a few leins on some houses/acreages. They didn't pay a large sum to his business, he got a court order, interest piled up and now they basically might as well just give him thier house. They also went on many vacations and bought skijets and such in the meantime so it's not like they couldn't pay.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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