"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julian

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As long as its not one of those gay tribal or asian letter tattoos.
 

Enduro

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Why would you even ask this question? If you're not going to get a tattoo for yourself, then you don't have any business getting one. This decision is for you to make, not others.

For the record - tribals and kanji aren't necessarily 'gay'.
 

blienk

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....because our opinions should carry weight when you're the one who has to live with the decision for the rest of your life.

Please read Sammo's post about "getting that certain girl".
 

OneByOne

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im probably going to end up with alot of tatoos, i just see myself ending up with sleeves on my arms
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bogman2121

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if i ever get myself looking like i want to im thinking about getting a small superman s on my shoulder or high on my bicep just because superman is the **** and i am too
 

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While I was in Europe this summer, I visited one of my old friends there. He had a tatoo on his left shoulder, and it was an asian symbol. When I asked him what it means, he said "Love". He also told me that since he wears a lot of wife-beaters wherever he goes, girls constantly approach him and ask him what it means, and it's a great way to meet new girls, and people generally.

Just something to think about, it can be an expression of your individuality as well as being great conversational material.
 

katoom

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I really dont think you should be getting a tattoo to 'express your individuality' or as a 'conversation peice' Come on, you think your idea of individuality is gonna be the same when your 50?
Choose the tattoo you want, then wait a year. If you still want it after that time I say go for it.
I got my ink done about 6 months ago and Im still really happy with it.
 
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