"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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As long as its not one of those gay tribal or asian letter tattoos.
 

Enduro

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Why would you even ask this question? If you're not going to get a tattoo for yourself, then you don't have any business getting one. This decision is for you to make, not others.

For the record - tribals and kanji aren't necessarily 'gay'.
 

blienk

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....because our opinions should carry weight when you're the one who has to live with the decision for the rest of your life.

Please read Sammo's post about "getting that certain girl".
 

OneByOne

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im probably going to end up with alot of tatoos, i just see myself ending up with sleeves on my arms
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bogman2121

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if i ever get myself looking like i want to im thinking about getting a small superman s on my shoulder or high on my bicep just because superman is the **** and i am too
 

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While I was in Europe this summer, I visited one of my old friends there. He had a tatoo on his left shoulder, and it was an asian symbol. When I asked him what it means, he said "Love". He also told me that since he wears a lot of wife-beaters wherever he goes, girls constantly approach him and ask him what it means, and it's a great way to meet new girls, and people generally.

Just something to think about, it can be an expression of your individuality as well as being great conversational material.
 

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I really dont think you should be getting a tattoo to 'express your individuality' or as a 'conversation peice' Come on, you think your idea of individuality is gonna be the same when your 50?
Choose the tattoo you want, then wait a year. If you still want it after that time I say go for it.
I got my ink done about 6 months ago and Im still really happy with it.
 
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