"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Taste in women.

rhcp83

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I'm a little like Niles but unintentionally. Kind of awkward but a sophisticated awkward. I'm not into drinking wine/acting snobby/elitist though and also I like sports. But I have the same type of quirks.

Frasier was a good show but I didn't/don't base my life on it. In fact, after I saw every episode, it had no replay value for me.

http://www.celebful.com/celebrity-pictures/rachel-weisz-photos-12194
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dear All,
"'m on a small amount of an anti-depressant. Chemical depression runs in the family. That didn't stop me from obsessing over porn, masturbation, "hot women" and the like 24/7...beyond any normal guy level.
So I was put on clonapin (1mg to be exact...which is nothing at all) to lessen the obsessive thinking...and my interest in women is still very much there, just different......
Sorry mate but you seem perfectly normal to me...No sarcasm or humour intended.....I was like you,perhaps to a lesser degree still am,should I be on tranquilisers?
 

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All those guys who want 9s with crap personalities or a need for attention over a decent 7 who can get things done relationship wise and who you can count on to be there are total PUA mouthbreathers with no concept of what it means to have a team or to eventually settle down with someone who you can have a great life with. Keep drinking the "neg hit, fclose a HB10" koolaid that retards love.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
All those guys who want 9s with crap personalities or a need for attention over a decent 7 who can get things done relationship wise .
9s with good personalities exist

so do 7s with sh!tty personalities
 

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Seems many men here haven't learned the difference between "needs" and "wants". I NEED a car.... I WANT a "vette". Other than the 2 seats[2 sons,one can ride on the luggage rack?],lack of clearance,no ability to drive it on ice,no place to put dead animals when I hunt[I suppose I could lift it,put studded snow tires and a towing hitch for the trailer on it to make it work] OR maybe I just get the 4 door,4 wheel drive pickup that I really need. No one here has a problem with that.
BUT, the second I decide I need a different type of woman than what some on this board think is the perfect 10? I'm "settling","afraid" etc. We all have different needs. I don't need to look at my trophy case for validation[or my GF] of my status as a man. I had the trophy GF's...I decided I didn't need them OR want them

I still wouldn't mind leasing a sports car for the summer,but for about 4 months of the year it doesn't work. i take the same approach with women... if she doesn't work 1/3 of the time, I'll lease it for the summer
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I honestly think that when it comes to 9s or above they're only good for sex really. They're just too spoiled by the amount of male attention they receive.

I understand the concept that 9s might be intimidating so guys don't approach them. I grew up believing that. It made sense to me. But when I reached dating age I found it simply wasn't true. These girls are flooded with male attention on a level you can barely comprehend. That's my experience anyway.
 

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rhcp83 said:
obsessing over porn, masturbation, "hot women" and the like 24/7...beyond any normal guy level.
LOL I think you'll find that the "normal guy level" of obsessing over p*ssy is very, very high. I rub one out 2-3 times a day and troll internet dating boards all the friggin time.

I don't look at porn anymore, hardly ever masturbate (maybe once every 2 weeks to clean the pipes) and don't even notice the type of hot women that most guys would just notice because they want to sleep with them. You see these women for what they are and aren't just thinking about a sexual fantasy.
I'm not sure that your new behavior sounds at all "healthy."

Personally, speaking for myself, I want a woman that I can tell her "You look beautiful" not in any means of supplication but because I truly believe it, and she hasn't heard it a million times a day in her life, yet at the same time she really is beautiful.
Statement sounds oddly feminine.

It's weird...I have no desire for AW/club hot type women at all.
Doesn't sound weird at all.

that is what drives a lot of men on this site...they weren't good with women at a young age, and pursue certain women for an ego boost.
I don't doubt that.

Note...this doesn't apply to guys just looking for hookups...which is why I posted this in the mature forum. I'm also 28 anyway and not looking for a hookup.
Whoops! I have to admit I luuuurve hookups. :yes:
 
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