"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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slickaz

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Ok so i work as a business intelligence legal consultant for a global top five firm.
one of the rules we have in the company is no external relationships with clients and their staff during the business stages.

so i perform excellent at work, and i usually have enough free time to get on here check some threads etc.

One of my clients has a 2IC that is middle eastern.
and im talking this girl is an all round 20.
she got a superb job,
she looks flyer than a satellite!
she smells fresher than a gucci store.
and shes got a booty that looks smooth firm like mcdonalds buns.

Everytime we work together etc she is very straight forward, very professional, yet strangely i get the feeling shes got something for me.
she does Kino me more than anyone else ive worked with.
but its mostly the eye contact.

when we're not working on the same piece of work, she walks past gives me double take look then gets on with her day.
i never hear from her unless its to do with work.
but when we work we get pretty joking etc.
as soon as its over, contact is over.

I dont even know if shes married. or bf.
im kind of afraid to ask. since shes middle eastern and you know how they are with their women!

advice?

I know we're not allowed to see clients
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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slickaz said:
I know we're not allowed to see clients
Is she so fine a piece that you'd risk losing your job over her?
 

rushing dude 123

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plenty more fish in the sea, if u like a girl u work with just ask when shes leaving the job. I guess u can just wait till u stop working with her, then ask her out. Shes not the only out there though dude, so just move on and if that oppurtunity presents itself then go for it, but for now jus leave it.

Well dude u can take that advice, buts its ur life u can learn from ur own mistakes. Hope at the end of whatever u decide to do, works out best for u, even if it dosn't seem like it.
 

slickaz

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ok..ive decide to take your advice and drop this one..i need to think with the right head..
which i am now..and i think im going to keep my job.lol.

Thanks you guys for the advice..
but atleast other guys in this situation will now know.
 
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