"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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slickaz

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Ok so i work as a business intelligence legal consultant for a global top five firm.
one of the rules we have in the company is no external relationships with clients and their staff during the business stages.

so i perform excellent at work, and i usually have enough free time to get on here check some threads etc.

One of my clients has a 2IC that is middle eastern.
and im talking this girl is an all round 20.
she got a superb job,
she looks flyer than a satellite!
she smells fresher than a gucci store.
and shes got a booty that looks smooth firm like mcdonalds buns.

Everytime we work together etc she is very straight forward, very professional, yet strangely i get the feeling shes got something for me.
she does Kino me more than anyone else ive worked with.
but its mostly the eye contact.

when we're not working on the same piece of work, she walks past gives me double take look then gets on with her day.
i never hear from her unless its to do with work.
but when we work we get pretty joking etc.
as soon as its over, contact is over.

I dont even know if shes married. or bf.
im kind of afraid to ask. since shes middle eastern and you know how they are with their women!

advice?

I know we're not allowed to see clients
 

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slickaz said:
I know we're not allowed to see clients
Is she so fine a piece that you'd risk losing your job over her?
 

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plenty more fish in the sea, if u like a girl u work with just ask when shes leaving the job. I guess u can just wait till u stop working with her, then ask her out. Shes not the only out there though dude, so just move on and if that oppurtunity presents itself then go for it, but for now jus leave it.

Well dude u can take that advice, buts its ur life u can learn from ur own mistakes. Hope at the end of whatever u decide to do, works out best for u, even if it dosn't seem like it.
 

slickaz

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ok..ive decide to take your advice and drop this one..i need to think with the right head..
which i am now..and i think im going to keep my job.lol.

Thanks you guys for the advice..
but atleast other guys in this situation will now know.
 
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