"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tap it or tap out?

Thundernuts

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Whats going on guys,

About 4 months ago i posted a thread about what to do with a certain female that was blowing me off constantly. When my father went to the hospital this girl didnt even bother to ask me how he was doing.

All this was coming from a girl i had gone out with and got a bj from. She even told me she loved for me awhile.

So anyways to make a long story short she friend zones me and hasnt contacted me in almost 4 months. I got a message on pof from her a little while ago. She says she misses me. thats all.

This girl told me she had cancer and she couldnt be with in a relationship anymore. I was spinnning other plates at the time so i didn't care to much. Now you guys think i should play with her a little bit, lead her on, fvck her, or just politely tell her to get fvcked.

thanks in advance guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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skinnyguy

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You're sticking around for a cancer patient who gave you a bj 4 months ago?

smh
 

Thundernuts

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hell no im not sticking around. I've been tlking to other women and have been out on dates this girl just hit me up today and i wanted your guys opinion on wether or not i should make a move or just flat out ignore her.
 

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if you have to ask - the answer is always drop it and move on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dgwizdal

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Neg. No need to play w a girls emotions who's already going through enough faggot. There are less vulnerable vaginas available.
 

skinnyguy

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Purefilth said:
if you have to ask - the answer is always drop it and move on.

haha, couldn't have said it better myself!

Same thing goes for "should I keep pursuing this flake?"
 

Thundernuts

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Lol, i wouldnt be talking about messing with someone who left me because they had cancer. This chick lied about it as an excuse to leave me i left that part out.

Thanks anyways fellas i left it alone. Wasted enough time on this chick last semester anyways.
 
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